Their relationship represented everything I overcame in the past two years out of love for him. Your password has been changed. Children do not want to lose either parent or their home but is experienced as loss. Kaye advises that women "follow their instincts" when deciding whether their husband may be gay. Yes, they need to take responsibility for not having come out sooner and avoided heterosexual marriage. The length of their marriages range from a few years to 20 and 30 years together.
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I Found Out My Husband Is Gay
We told the younger two first and kept it really simple for them. Sign in to complete account merge. It was the fact that there was complete openness, honesty and trust that made these relationships successful. What have they invested so far, and if they do break up, what's at risk? Views Read Edit View history.
Decades since coming out, Jim still talks to his wife regularly. Hmmm, the same factors that are needed to make all relationships successful. Your password has been changed. I found that I needed to maintain as much normalcy as I could, which meant staying home with our three kids, going through familiar motions. We worked on it together over a glass of wine on our front porch, smiling and waving at unknowing neighbours as they walked by. When I say we, I mean everyone —our family circle has grown.