I had no idea what he was capable of doing. And you girl, might just be gay too.! My wife would get angry if she saw me drink more than a six-pack, so I tried to get as much as I could in me before I got there. I cried myself to sleep and called a therapist the next morning. What followed is a blur in my memory: Dont care to "come out of the Closet" dont like that Lifestyle and Yes,there is and are Diseases but mostly with Out Men.
It really comes across in your posts how determined you are to not give up on connection and moving forward with your own life.
In reality he just needed time. I compromised and so did he. Nail on the Head
If it turns out that a husband is, in fact, gay, the fallout can be difficult to deal with, particularly for the straight partner.